4 Types Of Men You Should Never Marry

Hello lovelies,

I hope this isn’t a very cliché , magazine article-esque post ,but I was just thinking about what kind of men I absolutely despise, hehe , so I decided to write down a list. Hope you don’t mind, promise there is a lot of diverse content coming up for you lovelies. Give it a read though, you might just like it.

What types of men should you avoid at all costs?

Yes, it’s true, everyone has their own preference when it comes to the type of person they see fit as a life partner. However, some people are nothing but trouble, so do yourselves a favour ladies and steer clear of the following types of men.

1)The Mama’s Boy:

Now don’t get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with being attached to your mother. In fact, the relationship between a mother and son is really quite a special one, that is , unless it gets to the point where the son is completely under the influence of his mother’s words and cannot do so much as think or make decisions on his own. Now, you certainly don’t need your monster .. *ahem ahem* i mean mother in law being the one deciding how many children you’ll have or how you’ll manage your  finances. I’ve actually seen men who won’t let their wives decide what to name the baby they’ve carried for nine months, because they want their “mumsie love” to have the honour. For God’s sake mate! Give it a rest. So if you don’t want to have to worship your man’s mother for the rest of your life , definitely stay away from any mama’s boys.

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2)The One Who Lacks Ambition:

Ah! Here’s a good one. A man who lacks ambition. Yes siree, ambition is most certainly a quality required for making a good husband. You need the man you marry to be someone who is determined and focused to achieve something in life, to get somewhere. No one wants a lazy bum who would lie in bed all day if he could and is satisfied with a low wage job just because he doesn’t want to put any extra effort in. I’ve known women who had to end up filing for a divorce because their husbands just refused to work, out of sheer laziness and lack of ambition, they wanted their wife’s family to send them money instead. How utterly shameful!

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3)The Bad Boy:

Ladies ladies ladies ! I know y’all love bad boys.Why? I’ll never know, I’ve personally never been attracted to one myself. I like the nice guys , who apparently come last. Meh, I don’t care if it’s not “cool” to like the nice guys, I most certainly do and I know for sure that they make better husbands then the oh so popular bad boys.Now let me br br break it down for you. Never ever ever never are you going to be able to change a “bad boy”.If he is to change, he will do so himself , but please stop fooling yourself into thinking that you’ll be the one to change his ways. It’s not going to happen, capiche? .Even if he’s being nice and polite to you, please don’t be flattered. The way he treats others speaks volumes about the kind of man he is and if cusses or mocks people for fun then that’s just not cool, okay?!

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4)The One Who’s Afraid Of Commitment:

Please, oh please, don’t be delusional and attach false hopes of marrying someone who has never uttered a word regarding marriage. If the man hasn’t shown any signs of wanting to make it official, it is most likely that he doesn’t intend to. The best route to take under such a circumstance is to walk away as soon as possible. If you’ve got marriage on your mind and the other person is just not that keen on the idea, it’s best to let them be and go your separate ways. Also, make sure you understand the man’s intentions before you get too involved, because the deeper you go the harder it’ll be for you to get out the relationship without getting your heart shattered. Don’t try to push such a man for marriage, because if he’s scared of marriage now , then he probably can’t take the pressure of being married and no marriage is most definitely not a piece of cake and it’ll be harder still when you’re married to someone who never completely committed to the idea. Also, if there are commitment issues it’s easier to leave a relationship then get married and have that not work out.

Bob still had a few commitment issues.
Bob still had a few commitment issues.
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And that’s all for now guys! Hope you enjoyed reading .

Love Always,

M

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